The craving
for connection between the opposite sexes is the most powerful force in human
relations, particularly in a sexual context. Sex is like the merging two souls
together and was originally intended as a solidifying component in the relationship
between a man and woman. The impact of sex is so strong that it can be used to accomplish
other human endeavours. Many couples are oblivious of the effect that sexual
fulfillment has in consolidating their relationship. It’s difficult for a couple
with an amazing sexual connection to have a frustrating relationship or
marriage.
Sex
plays a very significant role in the strengthening of many relationships.
Despite its importance, it remains somewhat a mystery to several couples who
find it challenging to converse about sex. Many sexually unfulfilled people who
cheat on their partners often seek for greener pastures outside of their
relationships with persons who they feel can relate with them on the same
sexual frequency. This is because they are not wired to discuss about sex,
except with those who they are very confident with.
Traditionally,
sex is not a subject that most people feel very comfortable discussing because
they deem it inappropriate. It is often discussed as either in an obscene
manner or medical perspective. So we often struggle to represent sex in the
right perception, so as not to appear too vulgar or overly scientific.
Studies
show that men and women possess different sexual orientations. Women are more relaxed
talking to fellow women about sex and same can be said for men. They do not
speak or understand the same sex language and tend to focus on different
aspects of sex. While men focus on the physical aspect (sex positions, performance
and orgasm), the women focus more on the emotional aspect (intimacy, bonding
and pleasing). Also, the men are raised to believe that they should
instinctively know how to please a woman sexually, while women on the other
hand are taught to avoid creating conflict in their relationships by making certain
sexual demands.
In order
to sustain a healthy sex life, couples require effective sexual communication. Many
couples find it difficult to talk about sex because they are restrained by
deeply held beliefs that view sex as immoral. Couples who frequently talk about sex are more likely to communicate
their feelings during sexual intercourse. Talking about sex with your partner
helps you learn more about their sexual preferences and you can in turn use
that knowledge in the pursuit of sexual fulfillment.
For couples who lack trust, discussing about their sexual preferences can be a huge risk. Talking about your sensual needs can make you vulnerable to being misjudged, criticized and rejected. So, letting your partner know what you like during sex requires honesty, patience and open-mindedness. The willingness to take this risk is often related to the degree of trust among the couple.
Sexual desires evolves over time as the couple's cravings get more or less assorted. So it’s
important to communicate your feelings and understand your partner, so as to adjust where necessary. They also need to improvise from time to time to keep their sexual territory fortified. Sexual communication is an important ‘sensual enhancement’ that helps build intimacy and nurtures trust in the relationship. Men tend to open up emotionally when their woman becomes more sexual. And women express themselves more sexually when their men become more romantic.
Sex brings more pleasure or frustration in a relationship than anything else. It serves as a scale in measuring the true value of a relationship. Sex goes a long way in determining whether a couple will stick together or break apart. In conclusion, sex is very important and in order to live happily ever after, you MUST have the SEX factor in your relationship.
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